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12 Smart Choices That Will Light You Up

“You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.” ~Galileo Galilei

Do you know someone who shines? Whenever you see them, they exude an inner glow and seem to be effortlessly happy. They are grounded and clear. Maybe that someone is you?

We can’t help but be our essential selves – it is who we are. But sometimes our light gets ... Read entire article

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Like a Phoenix Rising from the Ashes

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“Suffering and joy teach us, if we allow them, how to make the leap of empathy, which transports us into the soul and heart of another person. In those transparent moments we know other people’s joys and sorrows, and we care about their concerns as if they were our own.” ~Fritz Williams

“Phoenix rising from the ashes.” This phrase popped into my head recently, and I wasn’t sure why until ... Read entire article

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10 Life-Changing Facts About Habits

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“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” ~Albert Einstein

A few weeks ago, I published a post called 10 Life-Changing Facts About Fear. I was walking on the beach yesterday with my lovely friend Evan who suggested I write a 10 Life Changing Facts series. “Brilliant!” I thought (thanks, Evan), and what better topic to write about than getting unstuck.

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Feeling Unworthy? How to Find Your Way to Freedom

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“Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you – all of the expectations, all of the beliefs – and becoming who you are.” ~Rachel Naomi Remen

Note: This post was inspired by a TED talk by researcher Brene Brown called “The Power of Vulnerability.” Please watch it if your beliefs about your perceived failings, faults, and imperfections ... Read entire article

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The Art and Craft of Befriending Your Experience

peaceful“I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself.” ~Maya Angelou

I was in a yoga class the other day, and I wasn’t happy. I simply didn’t agree with how the instructor was leading the class. My body seized up, my mind felt dense and pressured, and the dark cloud of needing to be right descended.

Then I woke up. The clouds parted, ... Read entire article

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There Is Great Freedom in Simply Being Aware

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“The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware.” ~Henry Miller

Have you noticed how embedded our habits can be? Even with the best of intentions to act or feel differently, before we know it, we are barreling down a familiar track doing the same old, same old.

You want to change, but over and over you find yourself taking on ... Read entire article

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Are You Ready to Choose Sanity?

sanity“Embracing our humanness is what actually delivers us beyond attachment and non-attachment and into the vastness of true freedom, love, and compassion.” ~Adyashanti

Here are some people I’ve come across recently.

A man whose light shines so brightly. He wants to end a relationship that is no longer joyful, but feels he doesn’t deserve to get what he wants. Two competent professional women who are overcommitted, hyper-responsible, unable to set ... Read entire article
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How Does Your Garden Grow? A Gentle Guide to Nourishing the Best in You

istock_000000589354xsmall“What shape waits in the seed of you to spread its branches against a future sky?” ~David Whyte

If there is one thing I’ve learned, it’s that things happen in their own time. No matter what the self-improvement blogs tell you, you can’t make your passion appear on demand and you can’t control the circumstances of your life.

But you can plant and fertilize, nourish and water. You can live ... Read entire article

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Why It’s Valuable to Stay Close to the Bone

close_to_bone“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

In the last post, we talked about the beauty of an uncluttered mind. And from an uncluttered mind flows the most pleasurable action.

We know when we are doing ... Read entire article

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A Simple Guide to Decluttering Your Mind

meditationsunset “The single clenched fist lifted and ready, or the open hand held out and waiting. Choose: For we meet by one or the other.” ~Carl Sandburg

There’s a lot of talk in the blogosphere about simplifying our lives. I love when things are simple. I recently saw “The Social Network,” and what struck me was the portrayal of lives filled to the brim with complexity.

It got me thinking about clutter ... Read entire article Related Posts with Thumbnails

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